RUTH WESTHEIMER

1928 – 2024

BY RUTHIE DITUCCI

Dr. Ruth Westheimer (born Karola Ruth Siegel on June 4, 1928) was a German-American sex therapist, talk show host, author, professor, and Holocaust survivor. Her diminutive stature—she stood at just 4 feet 7 inches—belied her immense impact on public discourse around sexuality.

Holocaust Survivor: Dr. Ruth’s life began in Frankfurt, Germany. Raised in an Orthodox Jewish family, she fled to Switzerland in 1939 when she was only 10 years old. Tragically, she never saw her parents or grandparents again, as they perished in the genocide.

Sexual Literacy Advocate: Dr. Ruth’s legacy lies in her candid discussions about once-taboo bedroom topics. Her radio program, “Sexually Speaking,” gained national prominence in the early 1980s. With her extensive knowledge, humor, and nonjudgmental approach, she encouraged open dialogue on issues that affected millions. Her recurring theme: There’s nothing to be ashamed of when it comes to sex. She demystified the subject with rationality and warmth, authoring over 40 books, including “Dr. Ruth’s Guide to Good Sex” and even creating a board game called “Dr. Ruth’s Game of Good Sex”.

Media Star: Dr. Ruth’s giggly, German-accented voice and her petite frame made her an unlikely—but unforgettable—figure in the world of sexual education. She became a regular on late-night television talk shows, bringing her personality and expertise to a national audience. Her rise coincided with the early days of the AIDS epidemic, when frank sexual talk became crucial.

Legacy: Dr. Ruth Westheimer’s legacy extends far beyond her own lifetime. She championed sexual literacy, emphasizing communication, consent, and understanding between partners. Her message was clear: Sex is a private art, but it’s also a subject we must talk about openly and without shame.